Equality

Hey guys! I got a problem with playin FM08 online and I hope you may be able to help.

I have:
Windows XP SP2
5,2GHZ
2 GB ram
and my internet is: 8/1 mb.
I also have a D-link 524UP router .

And now to the problem,
Me and my friend are going to start a online game using Hamachi. We get as far as to our first fiendly match and then when my friend tries to "submit" his team he gets disconnected and his game crashes.

We tried it so that he was host and i joined, but then the problems started when I was going to create a new user, then the game just kicks me out. Also we have the same problem with FM07...

This is realy weird cause we both have the right ports opened and I'm able to play FM08 using hamachi against my brother on his laptop.

And the thing is, because he is able to join my game and make transfers and team changes and its not untill we wanna play a match that it crashes, this can't have to do with ports right?

I very much appreciate answers and sollutions, we feel like we've tried everything by now...

Sincerely yours
Erik